Talk 13: Go Beyond Guilt and Regret to Realize a New You Have you ever hurt someone you love, or acted against your own best interests -- and then wished you could undo what had been done?How would you like to put any mistake you have ever made behind you? And, rather than be punished by a parade of painful thoughts and memories, learn how to rise above the negative states of guilt and regret? Of course you would. We all would! We would all like to make a totally fresh start for ourselves -- where no matter what life takes us through, we are always on the positive side of every event. Even when we make great big mistakes! It sounds great, but how do we do it? How do we make this new start? First, let me tell you one of the most liberating -- yet little known -- facts in the universe: We are NOT supposed to live with paralyzing guilt over our past mistakes. And we are NOT meant to carry regrets about the things we've done -- ever. Now that's a big statement. And I know when many people hear a truth such as this they flatly disagree. "But, I have to feel guilty over what I did. What kind of person doesn't feel guilty for the bad things they've done? That would be a person without feeling -- without remorse!" And THAT'S the trick! That's EXACTLY what keeps us captive of the past: Guilt and regret deceive us into thinking they have the power to prevent us from making mistakes in the future -- that if we wish to be a good person, we must learn to endure their pain and punishment for what we've done. But, in reality, nothing could be further from the truth! The only thing painful guilt and regret ensure is that we continue to spread their dark seeds of useless suffering -- continue to give life to negative emotions that don't want us to see how we can be new in every moment. The great and wise ones have always said so: it's only when we are truly new –- when we no longer bear the burden of unnecessary pain and are in a conscious relationship with the new and ever-changing Present Moment -– that it's possible for us to make real changes in our lives that lead to being wiser, kinder, more creative human beings. Imagine seeing your entire past from a higher vantage point. Imagine facing each moment with fresh enthusiasm. Think what it would mean to be able to start over again with every relationship -- no longer being nagged by thoughts of missed opportunities and having to walk around with the weight of guilt upon your soul! What's more, because you've dropped the dead weight of reliving old relationships and events now long gone, imagine how much more time and energy you will have to explore the power and the promise of each new moment! It's all possible for you when you master the secrets revealed in Guy Finley's ground-breaking seminar, "The Power to Release Painful Regrets and Get Over Guilt." In this powerful seminar, you will learn to: - Bring Fresh Life Into Tired or Damaged Relationships - Turn Past Mistakes Into the Promise of a Whole New Kind of Success - Drop All Self-Punishing Thoughts and End Their Tyranny Over You - Rise Above the Guilt That Won't Let You Grow Into the Person You Long to Be - Become a Truly Kind, Compassionate, and Loving Human Being We've all longed to start over fresh and new... to let go of everything that's been holding us back. Now you can gain the knowledge needed to do it!
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